All Loved Up – Crystals for Self Love and Relationships

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Whether we want to attract love into our lives, or heal tricky relationships (romantic, family or friends), self love and self worth have a huge impact. We have to heal our heart first and give ourselves the unconditional love that tells the Universe we ARE worthy. Here are my crystal tools that work on all aspects of relationships – with ourselves and then with others. Can you use these to attract romance? Yes you absolutely can. And improving our own self-acceptance also attracts more abundance, more fun and better health. It’s a win-win situation.

Rose Quartz 

Unconditional love and self-acceptance              

The delightful pale pink rose quartz is the stone of unconditional love and more importantly, unconditional self love and self – acceptance.

It brings self-esteem and a feeling of being nourished and supported.  When we understand we are worthy of love, we attract love. It soothes a broken heart and brings a feeling of nurture and support.  I recommend rough chunks. With their uneven shapes they help to scatter the loving energies around the home. In an existing relationship, use two and their soft loving energies placed either side of the bed,  gradually repair any niggles from the day (or the years). If you are looking for love, their vibes will magnify your intentions and you can let go and allow the universe to work its magic for you.

If you are looking for love I also recommend a Rose Quartz Heart for Romance

Rose quartz of course is the chief stone of romance and attraction and the heart shape amplifies this intention. Keep it with you at all times. If you can’t get hold of a heart, use a tumbled or smooth stone.

Green Aventurine

Balance and Attraction

Green aventurine balances head with heart, masculine and feminine, yin and yang. It is also a key crystal for manifesting and attracting our desires and goals. Whatever your relationship goals it will support you.

Unakite

What belongs together, comes together

This green and pink stone is a perfect blend of epidote, red jasper and pink feldspar. The crystalline structure of the blend is so tightly melded that it sits well with its reputation of “what belongs together, comes together”. It attracts or creates a union that is seamless and meant to be and encourages an easy and equal connection. It is a stone for attracting a soul mate and for strengthening the bonds in healthy relationships, both romantic and others.

Chrysocolla

Communication and capacity for love

This beautiful blue-green stone is helpful during times of change and transition, because it helps to calm your emotions so that you can be you and be real. It helps us move on, only where necessary, and be ready for new beginnings.  In new relationships, it keeps communication clear and honest, removing those early doubts and giving a loving, gentle clarity. Chrysocolla also helps increase our capacity to love and shifts our barriers and blocks to loving and being loved. It heals the heart and enhances our capacity to love and be loved.

Rhodonite

Forgiveness and healing

This deep pink stone with black inclusions is the ultimate stone of forgiveness and healing and has deep and long lasting effects. It empowers us to reach our full potential, thereby attracting the love we deserve. In this way it is as useful in attracting new love as revitalising relationships for good.

Any or all of these crystals will help you to boost the relationship you have with the most important love in your life – you. And thereby all the love and relationships around you.

Need more help?

Together with Kate Spencer, I’ve devised a crystal kit which contains all of these stones (2 of the rose quartz raw chunks) and Kate has added an amazing Heal Your Wounded Soul Masterclass & Meditation Bundle.  The master class and meditation are digital products and an email will be forwarded to you in order for you to gain access to these bonus items.

Click here to find out more!

Nine Crystals for Menopause Support

Moonstone – peachy, creamy-semi-translucent

Moonstone works with the moon and helps to stabilise female hormones. Two are suggested so that you can choose to use them together or separately. You can have one on the left and one on the right side. Perhaps in your jeans pockets or maybe one either side of the bed or desk. If you only want one with you, leave one under your pillow and take one in your handbag or bra.

Lepidolite – purple or lilac/white with sparkles

This is my go-to stone for depression and anxiety so if low mood or mood swings accompany your symptoms keep it with you at all times, especially during sleep. It’s not an instant fix, but fairly quickly brings you back up and holds you steady.

Howlite – white with grey marbling

Grab a howlite if you feel sudden stress, anxiety or panic, or keep it with you and simply hold when you need instant calm.

Amethyst – purple translucent

Absolutely keep an amethyst under your pillow to help sleep patterns, and keep one with you at all times to help sharpen your memory and concentration.

Chrysocolla – blue-green

This is said to help restless legs and I have personally found that to be true. Works best when around you all the time, day and night. It also helps emotionally with the idea of menopause helping us to embrace and forgive. And, it helps clear communication.

 

Hematite – silver/pewter

Hematite is supremely grounding and brings a more steady feeling. It is fabulous for regulating temperature and circulation. Cooling for night sweats and daytime hot flushes, hold it or place on the wrist at the pulse point.

Citrine – yellow translucent

So cheery, this certainly aids cheerfulness but also keeps up the energy levels and counteracts fatigue. It is another tool in your armoury against hot flashes and works well with hematite during the day.

Yellow Jasper – mustard yellow, opaque

All jaspers help with digestive issues, yellow jasper also helps us to detox both from toxins, and emotional issues relating to other people. It helps us feel comfortable in social situations and is another boost to confidence and concentration. Its slow steady vibration helps emotionally too.

Orange Calcite – pale to bright orange

This is a smooth and comforting stone. Energising and balancing, known for balancing hormones and for boosting physical strength and stamina. All calcites are good for bones and joints. It’s good to hold and should be touched often.

If you’d like a kit of all the above crystals including 2 moonstone and 2 amethyst, here’s a link.

Magic Menopause Crystal Kit

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Contact me anytime if you need further support: Maureen@mojolistic.net