Whether we want to attract love into our lives, or heal tricky relationships (romantic, family or friends), self love and self worth have a huge impact. We have to heal our heart first and give ourselves the unconditional love that tells the Universe we ARE worthy. Here are my crystal tools that work on all aspects of relationships – with ourselves and then with others. Can you use these to attract romance? Yes you absolutely can. And improving our own self-acceptance also attracts more abundance, more fun and better health. It’s a win-win situation.
Unconditional love and self-acceptance
The delightful pale pink rose quartz is the stone of unconditional love and more importantly, unconditional self love and self – acceptance.
It brings self-esteem and a feeling of being nourished and supported. When we understand we are worthy of love, we attract love. It soothes a broken heart and brings a feeling of nurture and support. I recommend rough chunks. With their uneven shapes they help to scatter the loving energies around the home. In an existing relationship, use two and their soft loving energies placed either side of the bed, gradually repair any niggles from the day (or the years). If you are looking for love, their vibes will magnify your intentions and you can let go and allow the universe to work its magic for you.
If you are looking for love I also recommend a Rose Quartz Heart for Romance
Rose quartz of course is the chief stone of romance and attraction and the heart shape amplifies this intention. Keep it with you at all times. If you can’t get hold of a heart, use a tumbled or smooth stone.
Balance and Attraction
Green aventurine balances head with heart, masculine and feminine, yin and yang. It is also a key crystal for manifesting and attracting our desires and goals. Whatever your relationship goals it will support you.
What belongs together, comes together
This green and pink stone is a perfect blend of epidote, red jasper and pink feldspar. The crystalline structure of the blend is so tightly melded that it sits well with its reputation of “what belongs together, comes together”. It attracts or creates a union that is seamless and meant to be and encourages an easy and equal connection. It is a stone for attracting a soul mate and for strengthening the bonds in healthy relationships, both romantic and others.
Communication and capacity for love
This beautiful blue-green stone is helpful during times of change and transition, because it helps to calm your emotions so that you can be you and be real. It helps us move on, only where necessary, and be ready for new beginnings. In new relationships, it keeps communication clear and honest, removing those early doubts and giving a loving, gentle clarity. Chrysocolla also helps increase our capacity to love and shifts our barriers and blocks to loving and being loved. It heals the heart and enhances our capacity to love and be loved.
Forgiveness and healing
This deep pink stone with black inclusions is the ultimate stone of forgiveness and healing and has deep and long lasting effects. It empowers us to reach our full potential, thereby attracting the love we deserve. In this way it is as useful in attracting new love as revitalising relationships for good.
Any or all of these crystals will help you to boost the relationship you have with the most important love in your life – you. And thereby all the love and relationships around you.
Need more help?
Together with Kate Spencer, I’ve devised a crystal kit which contains all of these stones (2 of the rose quartz raw chunks) and Kate has added an amazing Heal Your Wounded Soul Masterclass & Meditation Bundle. The master class and meditation are digital products and an email will be forwarded to you in order for you to gain access to these bonus items.